Anab’s Abdullahi’s Journey : GBV Survivor Who Started a Tailoring Business & Trained Others

My name is Anab Abdullah, {not her real name} a 25-year-old mother of two, and I want to share my journey of transformation after experiencing sexual violence. After escaping a violent marriage, I found myself struggling to support my children while feeling isolated and uncertain about my future. As a survivor of Conflict Related Sexual Violence), I lacked the emotional support and financial independence to rebuild my life. My self-esteem was shattered, and I felt my dreams of becoming independent and successful were beyond reach.

In early 2024, I was selected to participate in a vocational training program run by SWCCA, aimed specifically at empowering survivors like me. This program provided training in tailoring, dressmaking, and tie & dye, equipping us with practical skills to start our own businesses. We also received start-up kits containing essential tools for our crafts.

During the three-month training, I learned the basics of tailoring and dressmaking, from simple alterations to creating entire garments. I even picked up the art of tie & dye, allowing me to experiment with fabric designs and express my creativity. At first, I felt overwhelmed, having no prior experience with sewing machines or fabric design, but the instructors were incredibly patient. They showed me that my past did not define my future.

The supportive environment in the training sessions was crucial. Many women in the class shared similar experiences of violence, and the mutual support we offered each other helped us rebuild our confidence and self-worth. I began to see myself not just as a survivor, but as someone with the potential to succeed.

Upon completing the training, I received my start-up kit, which included a sewing machine, fabrics, threads, dyes, and other necessary tools. This was the turning point I had long hoped for. I was so grateful; it felt like I was given a new beginning. I started by making simple clothing items for friends and family, and as word spread, my small business began to grow. I received orders for custom-made dresses, school uniforms, and tie & dye accessories. The demand for my work increased, allowing me to hire two other women from my community, providing them with employment and a source of income.

Today, I run a successful tailoring and dressmaking business and employ three other women. My income has enabled me to send my children to school and cover household expenses. I no longer feel ashamed of my past. Through this training, I’ve rediscovered my strength and regained my dignity. I’m able to contribute to my community in ways I never imagined.

I am passionate about helping other survivors of GBV. I actively participate in community outreach programs, sharing my story and encouraging women to take up vocational training to transform their lives. My success has inspired many in my community; I have become a role model, proving that with the right skills and resources, it is possible to overcome even the most difficult circumstances.

“I want to show other women that no matter how dark your past may seem, you have the power to change your future. My business is just the beginning, and I will continue to grow it, one stitch at a time.”  I said, in a recent interview.

My story is a testament to the power of vocational training and the importance of providing survivors of gender-based violence with the tools, skills, and support they need to build a brighter future. As I look to the future, I am determined to expand my business, hire more women, and continue supporting other survivors on their journey to independence. With hope, hard work, and support, anything is possible.

Supported by Stand Speak Rise Up (SSRU)